Back to the spiritual then.
How do you have 'joy' in difficult circumstances?
Should you view pain and trials as good?
Are difficulties evidence that God doesn't care?
I assert that we only grow when we're forced into doing it.
Why would we want to, or see a need to, otherwise?
We don't like it, but we should.
What if you looked at every 'negative' in your life as an opportunity for growth and maturity?
"We often pray for God to remove the very things in our life that He wants to use for our good and His glory."Wayne Jacobsen, He Loves Me
Make the most of your opportunities.